I remember how shocking it was to realize that I was attracting emotionally unavailable men because I believed that unavailable men were all I deserved. I didn’t think anymore of myself than that.
The courage to trust someone again does not begin with handing over your heart and seeing what they do with it. It begins with you showing up as the real you.
Even if the pain becomes overwhelming sometimes, STOP! Remember, you are walking through your Waiting Room while your heart heals. Part of the healing is to be present there – not to focus on keeping your foot in the Back Room door. Instead of how you hurt, turn your thoughts here: What do you smell […]