Rewriting Your Story

10 Ways to Make Yourself Incredibly Sexy

22650825_mlYou want to be sexy. Incredibly sexy.

You know, Pierce Bronson or Liv Tyler kind.

But then you look in the mirror and…let’s just say, any similarity is well hidden which understandably dampens your enthusiasm.

Can I tell you something?  Being sexy has little to do with looks and everything to do with “aura”.

An incredibly sexy person lives inside of you, dying to come out.

Come on, let’s bring that magnetism to the surface.  That is, if you dare!

1.  Stop thinking you’re not sexy and just “be” sexy

Make yourself sexy by taking on the right attitude. If you are burying your sexiness, there’s a reason. Do yourself a favor. Go on a mission and find that reason.

Born within you, there is an attractive, playful, seductive side so decide to own it!

Change doesn’t happen over time, it happens in the moment you make that decision.  Read on.

2.  Deal with your past love stories so they don’t fight with your current story

Bringing the pain and heartbreak of past relationships into the present will kill your sexiness with fear.

Those voices lie below the surface and convince you that history is repeating itself. The only way to live in today is to first look the memories in the face and heal those hurts.

Someone who has learned from where they’ve been and determined to make the present far better is emotionally available. And that, my friend, is extremely sexy.

3.  Become a true lovemaking expert

True lovemaking starts with touching the heart of someone else. From out of that connection grows the magic of head to toe, skin on skin, electric contact.

Sex is an art. You can drive your partner crazy by learning how the body responds.

It isn’t difficult, time consuming or mysterious. Obtaining your Master’s Degree is all kinds of fun and very rewarding.

Once you know the science of sex, it becomes much easier to hold conversations about it as well. It’s surprising to someone when they discover you can talk about it because it means you know about what works. Now that is incredibly sexy…

4.  Find your James Bond confidence

That sense of knowing who you are and what makes you worth kissing will exude sexiness to everyone around you even if that’s not your intention.  I learned this from my second time around husband who says I was like a magnet to him.

Inner confidence attracts (this is not arrogance we are talking about here).

You laugh more easily.

It gives you a kind of mystery that tells someone that you would not bring a lot of “drama” into a relationship. Rather, you would make life interesting.

5.  Practice being naked

No matter how unsatisfied you may be with your body, walk around naked – a lot. ( I would suggest practicing when you are alone or you may frighten your children.)  It’s amazing how sexy you begin to feel.

The more you become comfortable in your own skin, the less you care what someone else thinks.

It sounds ridiculous but practice sexy poses in the mirror and forget the sagging tummy or thighs. Remember, it’s all about attitude.

Let it be your eyes that say what you are thinking and your body won’t matter at all.

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Author

bernice@bernicemcdonald.com
My passion is to walk you back to a place of passionate love after divorce. I have loved to write, to coach, to train the past 10 years, so that your heart can love again - powerfully, strongly, softly and openly. I found my over the moon, never leave me love. You can, too.