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Beneath the hurts and scars, lies a beautiful, sensitive heart.


Divorce broke my heart and left me shattered. Like you, I wasn’t sure if there were any “good men” left out there OR if true love is just a myth. 

Know what I discovered? There are lots who are looking for good ladies like us.

But we have to be ready to meet them…and more importantly, we have to have our hearts wide open to receive their love.

Did you know that the heart is the MOST resilient of all “organs”, so to speak?

When it’s broken, it has the potential to GROW BACK stronger than it was before.

Stronger means in a way that is everything you imagined.

It’s being able to protect yourself by recognizing those who to keep out.

It’s being able to rest in your strength so that it’s safe to be soft.

It’s being able to express your feelings in a way that gives you courage and sets aside your fears.

And that’s what I want for you – for every woman.

I want to help you re-build your perspective of relationship by restoring your HEART.

So that’s what I do – I train women to:

Use their painful past to step into their beauty (every one is a diamond in the rough).

Open their hearts to trusting again.

Attract that wonderful man who is looking for them even if they have resigned themselves to being alone for the rest of their lives.

That’s why I started an on-line community of women who are rebuilding trust.

They are making their way down “The Open To Love Pathway”.

It’s a series of Milestones that rebuild trust one stepping stone at a time through what we call the “Waiting Room”.

The Waiting Room is the middle room on the Pathway beyond the heartbreak in your life.  It looks like this:

Think about it…

Do you want to spend the rest of your days stuck in the Waiting Room with a heart that is hiding behind a huge wall?

OR…do you want to find your way to the Sun Room where life is lived as the beautiful Diamond that you are? 

Free.

Making a difference.

Heart full of love.

The way out of the Waiting Room is dependent on 3 things:

Stepping into your Courage.

Finding your Confidence.

Embracing your Beauty in a every new way possible.

The Open To Love Again Pathway leads you down this road one step at a time at your own pace.

Your Journey will look like this:

Where to Start?

Check out our FREE “Help Me Trust Again” Breakthrough Call

Check our our “Help Me Trust Again” Breakthrough Strategy Call.

You need to talk this through even if that’s the only step you take on the Pathway with me.

We will:

  • Determine where you are right now.
  • Where you want to be.
  • And then what 3 simple steps will be to renew your hope and get you moving again.

Or, if you’re still shy, contact me on Facebook Messenger. I’m more than happy to text out a solution for you, too.

Join our Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/opentoloveagain

You can also join the Journey by joining the private Facebook group where there are hundreds of other women who are learning to trust again at “The Open To Love Again Pathway”.

Please take a tour around my site.

Contact me at bernice@opentoloveagain.com or on Facebook Messenger if you have a question, a story you need to tell to me alone, a need for feedback on a stumbling block… I want to help you and your heart in any way I can.