Your heart – always about your heart! Whether man or woman, being alive looks like YOUR VERSION of this:
You are never too old to find your heart.
You are never too hurt or rejected or thrown away or washed up!
You are never too dull, too hopeless, too lost.
Your heart is never beyond repair…. I believe that with all of my heart.
It is NEVER too late.
My wish for you, no matter who you are or what you’ve been through, is that you will take down the “Do Not Enter Sign” off of your heart and make a commitment to move forward, leave the past in the past and make the rest of your years everything they were meant to be.
Step out of your comfort zone where you actually feel safe because, when you have made the decision that nothing you do will ever make a difference, you are safe there. And sad. And missing out on so much more you could be and experience. Refuse to let that happen!
Step into the adventure you were made to live. Step into passion. Look up to the One who made you and believe that he is not there to punish you but to refine you. No matter what has taken you captive in the past or who told you were worthless, decide today that you are not going to be there any longer.
You have a purpose to find. You have a destiny. YOU have a life to live. On your own merit.
So find your strength.
1. STOP the pity. Break down the wall. Now. Step up. Look at how things are but don’t make them worse than they are.
2. LOOK at what your heart is really feeling. Get in a hot air balloon and let yourself drift up a few feet and look over the landscape. Tell yourself the truth. If you have been wrong, admit it. If you are believing lies about yourself, take a good honest look and get to the bottom of them. If you are single, you are single. If you are wanting a new love, then want it. If you are fighting with your children or your co-worker, take responsibility for your part.
3. LISTEN to your heart. What do you want? What life do you want? Who do you want to be? Write it down, decide to find out, go for help, talk it out with a friend…. Take action because action leads you forward – it produces emotion and health and growth.
Stay with me. I will do my best give you ideas and help you to understand how I traveled that road from heartbreak to happiness. You can do this. You will find the life that is planted like a seed inside your deepest heart.
Don’t ever give up on true love – love for yourself as well as love with someone who will be incredibly blessed to have you fall in love with them. You can have it all!