My heart has been shattered. “Will I ever be happy again?”, you wonder. Ah. I hear you. It doesn’t feel like it sometimes, does it? Did you know that “happiness” boils down to one thing? Not the “emotion” of happiness, which is brief. But that fulfilled, in control feeling that actually feels like you’re making […]
I remember how shocking it was to realize that I was attracting emotionally unavailable men because I believed that unavailable men were all I deserved. I didn’t think anymore of myself than that.
The courage to trust someone again does not begin with handing over your heart and seeing what they do with it. It begins with you showing up as the real you.