Discovering and Embracing My Own Magic / Learn To Trust Your Heart Again

The Most Beautiful Thing You Can Do With The Cracks of Your Broken Heart

A seed is a miracle in itself, isn’t it? In that tiny, tiny small particle lies an entire plant, a beautiful flower.

Think about what that small powerhouse has to go through in order to start growing…dirt, darkness, moving around obstacles. Even when peeking above the ground to at last see the light, sometimes the light can be too hot or a giant bird comes along and plucks it off.

You have a choice of many seeds to plant in the hurt places of your heart.

Worry. Fear. Anger. Judgement.

O yeah – these can grow into giant plants out of our hearts, right? I’ve been there. Let lots of these blossoms grow and what kind of life do you have?

It’s easy to let ugliness take hold when we’re bitter or confused or lost. In fact, you can grow a forest out of the pain.

But who do we push away in the process?

Do we even like to be around ourselves?

Choose To Grow Loveliness

I know it’s tough – tough like climbing Mount Everest.

Did you realize it’s actually the easier Path to let the bitterness grow when you are SO hurt and don’t understand why this happened to you? Why this keeps happening to you?

It’s easier to just give up rather than to take a stand for our hearts and fight back. It’s easier to stay stuck than to move on.

But the heart is the most resilient thing about us. What we sow we reap. Ever heard that quote from the wisest Book ever written? It’s a life principle we can’t escape.

So here’s the other side of it: you can plant seeds that result in YOU being the most beautiful you that could ever exist – even more gorgeous than if your relationship had worked out! Even more beautiful than that woman.

Wow! Why? How?

Because, just like the seed, it’s in the darkness, it’s through the act of having to push through the dirt and find our way of winding around rocks and bugs and avoid swooping birds than can actually create something more amazing than we can imagine.

Tough circumstances, challenge, heartbreak can produce the best in you because it builds resiliency, wisdom, depth. Character.

What makes a woman beautiful? Sparkle.

What attracts a good man to someone like you? Sparkle such as…

A wise knowing about life.

Understanding that not everything turns out the way you thought it would.

A decision to let go of what you can’t control (like that man who actually wasn’t capable of loving you the way you needed to be loved – come on now, it wasn’t all about you) and control what you can.

It’s focusing on being grateful for all the love you DO have in your life.

It’s appreciating the strengths you have, what you’re truly good at, what you have left to do in this life, to offer others who are hurting or in need – even at work, in the line at the grocery store, and yes, you can pack all of that into a smile at a stranger.

Imagine the Most Beautiful Flower You Can Think Of

Amazing colors. Fragrant. Courageous. Confident. Climbing out of the dirt.

Bringing peace and strength and hope to others who come close. Just because it’s there.

Flowers can do that. We give them to each other all the time for exactly those reasons.

They symbolize quiet resilience.

Talk To Me

I’ve been there. I planted the seeds that have grown weeds and those that have grown excellence. Quiet resilience.

I know what it feels to hurt and I want to help you. It’s tough to find the right seeds to plant into those cracks in your broken heart.

You are not alone. Or rather, you don’t have to choose to be alone. My mission to help as many women as possible, women just like you, to grow into whatever beauty they can BECAUSE of what you’ve been through.

The best way I can help you is to hear your Story. And assess how far along you are on this trust journey.

I want to put into your hands the seeds you need to plant in order to bring out your beauty in the middle of this whole mess!

So set up a time to talk and let’s do this. Let’s find out how to grow a lotus, a rose or a lily out of YOUR life.

Click here to find a time: https://FindYourTrustScore.as.me/

Author

bernice@bernicemcdonald.com
My passion is to walk you back to a place of passionate love after divorce. I have loved to write, to coach, to train the past 10 years, so that your heart can love again - powerfully, strongly, softly and openly. I found my over the moon, never leave me love. You can, too.