Learn To Trust A Man Again

The Way To Love Me Is To Love My Heart

You are NOT your body, not even your brain.

 You are this person inside that lives out of what we call your “heart”.
That heart place is incredible to behold.
It’s all you were meant to be.
It’s YOU – beautiful, overflowing, loving, warm, excited, believing…
That’s the part of you that you want a man to know. That’s the part of you that you want him to cherish and, really, that’s all we ask for, isn’t it?
See me.
See my heart.
See who I really am behind the closed doors, behind the fear, behind the pretending, behind what I’m hiding.
But, in order for him to see that side of you…
In order for him to be ABLE to love you like that, you have to do 2 things…

 1. Be your beautiful, courageous, confident self as God made you to be. Let yourself BECOME that woman.

 Know your values.
Know exactly what you stand for.
Understand your rules for life.
Don’t live to please anyone but the one who made you and become more “her” every moment of every day.
Be kind and open and warm and inviting and giving just because IT’S WHO YOU ARE – not because you are asking anyone to love you.

2. The second thing you have to do is to never settle for anyone who has no interest in seeing you for who you are.

 For someone who isn’t interested in your heart.
Or moving past the barriers that pain has put up.
Open up as in #1.
But only fully to the one who will love you just as you are.
And YOU be the Chooser – not the Chosen.
YOU be the one who assesses the atmosphere he creates.
YOU be the one who observes the attributes he has that demonstrate his ability to love you as you so long to be loved.
YOU be the one who accepts (or doesn’t) his attitudes in life as someone you could wake up with every day.
Your heart. Precious. Intuitive. Strong. Holding everything amazing about you.

Let it out. Open it up.

Show this world that you have a place here.
That you are meant to influence, to give in ways that make a difference.
And if someone is asking to love you, only believe him if he begins with your heart.


My passion is to walk you back to a place of passionate love after divorce. I have loved to write, to coach, to train the past 10 years, so that your heart can love again - powerfully, strongly, softly and openly. I found my over the moon, never leave me love. You can, too.