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Was that me today (or my Pretend self)?
She sat in her office with the door closed. Not because she needed to focus. Because she needed a minute before anyone saw her face. She had done something that felt right. She had spoken from the part of her that actually knew what was needed. And then, an hour later, been told it was the wrong move. Not harshly. Professionally. But clearly. Now she was sitting with the specific grief of being corrected for being yourself. I have been in that room. Not as the woman behind th
Bernice McDonald
5 days ago4 min read
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Do I Have What It Takes? (You Already Have Tons of Proof)
There's a version of this fear that only visits when nobody's watching. Not at the meeting. Not at the dinner table. Not when you're holding everything together for everyone else. It comes after. When the house gets quiet and your mind gets loud and the question just... surfaces. Do I actually have what it takes? Or am I just good at faking it? You don't say it out loud. Of course you don't. There are people counting on you. People who believe in you. People who would be sh
Bernice McDonald
Apr 35 min read
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Done Is Better Than Perfect (Do You Really believe that?)
She has read it so many times she's stopped seeing the words. The project. The presentation that's been sitting in her folder for three weeks. The email in drafts that just needs one more pass - one more morning with fresh eyes - before it's ready to send. She cares about this. That much is clear. That's why she keeps going back. One more read. One more small adjustment. One more quiet look at it before she commits. And tomorrow she'll look again. She doesn't think of herself
Bernice McDonald
Mar 214 min read
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Look Back: It Will Help You Trust Yourself
You know that feeling when you're standing in the middle of something hard and you don't trust yourself to handle it? When your mind is running through worst-case scenarios. When you're second-guessing every decision. When the voice in your head keeps saying, "What if I can't do this?" Maybe it's a business decision that feels too big. Maybe it's a health crisis you didn't see coming. Maybe you're caring for aging parents while trying to hold your own life together. Maybe it'
Bernice McDonald
Feb 164 min read
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